For some people, that can be hard – indeed, if overcoming your social anxiety was easy, you'd be doing it already.It's important to remember that the only true way to stop social anxiety is to cure it altogether. But there are smaller, more interesting strategies that can help you with some of your social anxiety issues and make sure that it doesn't interfere with your dating. You have to plan way ahead to figure out your tranquilizer/wine situation. You're inevitably teased for your compulsive nervous habits. Asking me to stop is like asking a normal human being to stop breathing, or stop talking loudly about politics at a party where nobody cares. You're never really excited for dates because you're too busy obsessing and being worried. One glass of prosecco and I'll turn into Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lambs.11. Just to give you an idea of the potential catastrophe, on the side of my Klonapin bottle it says that mixing with alcohol may cause "erratic personality changes." Awesome.The following are some tips to help you meet and date other people.Yes, the first tip is a boring one, but also extremely important.
Mine is talking to myself out loud and walking around my bedroom, and then having a snack and watching a very specific and very dumb TV show on Netflix. When they can't hang out because they already have plans, you're sure they hate you and will never talk to you again. Counting how many hours it takes for them to respond to a text.The fear of saying the “wrong thing” or coming across like a loser is all-consuming.But back to my first date with my husband: I arrived at the train station at least 10 minutes early, sweating buckets, and debated whether or not I should get out of there before I made a fool of myself.Dating someone with anxiety issues or an anxiety disorder can be horribly stressful.Sometimes it can feel like the anxiety is a third person in the relationship, someone who wriggles in between you and your partner. No one prepared you for this, and you can’t choose who you fall for.